Tips For Talking To Your Teen About Teen Addiction Treatment

As parents, we experience pride in watching our children grow into confident, independent adults. Of course, there are growing pains during the teenage years. Some teenagers struggle more than others. Unfortunately, some teens turn to substances for relief from internalized pain or a lack of social graces. In fact, 50% of high school seniors have tried marijuana, and 20% have used prescription drugs recreationally. Luckily, teens have a high chance of recovery compared to adults with decades of substance dependency. However, it's important to take action immediately. However, how do you address such a sensitive topic in a productive way? Use these tips for talking to your teen about teen addiction treatment. 

1. Don't Get Angry or Accusatory 

Many parents get mad if they discover their child is under the influence. That's perfectly natural. Your child should follow the rules in your home, and you have every right to punish them for breaking your rules. 

Treatment is a completely different conversation that should take place separately from punishments. Talk to your child about treatment when things have cooled down. You want your child to see the treatment as health-based instead of a punishment.

2. Express Your Concerns

Explain to your child that you simply care for them and want the best for them. Explain that alcohol and marijuana in moderation aren't necessarily bad for an adult in their own home, but they need to learn how to make responsible decisions now so that they make responsible decisions as an adult. 

For teenagers with advanced addiction or addiction to hard substances, emphasize the health risks and legal consequences. You can make it vivid by watching Requiem For a Dream together or visiting homeless shelters. 

3. Offer Options

Assuming there's no high-risk situation, you may want to offer treatment options. Some options available include:

• Group meetings
• Individual therapy
• Inpatient treatment
• Family therapy 
• Art therapy 

4. Support Them Emotionally

Everyone needs emotional support as they navigate the intricacies of adulthood while still limited in their own autonomy. 

Talk to your child in a supportive tone. Encourage your child to talk to you (or another trusted adult). 

Find ways to encourage productive behavior, such as sports or art. Encourage their friendships while simultaneously maintaining relationships with family. 

Your emotional support will increase the teen's confidence and hopefully eliminate the need to use. 

If your child does decide to partake in drinking or smoking from time to time, encourage them to be open. If things are getting out of control, put your foot down and insist on treatment right away.